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    I’m Seriously Considering a Deep Plane Facelift. Here’s Where My Head Is At.

    The Mid Mama / July 9, 2026

    Real life in the in-between, right? This is one of those in-between moments. I’ve taken decent care of my skin for years. I invest in the serums, the SPF infused makeup and I…

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Gene Rodriguez Miller

Gene Rodriguez Miller

A Mid Mama

Gene is a communications executive turned midlife storyteller. After more than 30 years in broadcast journalism and corporate communications, she launched The Mid Mama. It's a space for real fashion, beauty, wellness, hobbies for those living in the in-between.

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Somewhere between diaper bags and deadlines, I for Somewhere between diaper bags and deadlines, I forgot I used to have hobbies. Opinions that weren't about snacks. But here's the truth: it's not a midlife crisis — it's a midlife awakening. 🤍 Who's rediscovering themselves in the in-between? Tell me below. 👇 #TruthTuesday #TheMidMama #MidlifeAwakening #InBetweenMotherhood
Hi! It's Me! The friend who has the cutest mahjong Hi! It's Me! The friend who has the cutest mahjong tiles, mat and accessories. So, here is my round up us some must have and fun to haves. Whether you are just starting out or deep in the mahjong rabbit hole like me, this list has you covered. Comment Mahj and I will send you the link. #TheMidMama #Mahjong #MahjongFinds #MahjongObsessed #GameNight
Mahjong isn’t staying in our group chats anymore — Mahjong isn’t staying in our group chats anymore — it’s in city budgets now. 🀄 New post rounds up what’s happening RIGHT now: parks departments launching mahjong programs, libraries running free beginner classes, and a Vegas World Championship this fall with real money on the line. If you’ve been curious but haven’t sat down at a table yet, this is your sign. read it at themidmama.substack.com also linked in bio. Tell me below — where did you find your table? #TheMidMama #Mahjong #MahjongObsessed #MidlifeWomen #RealLifeInTheInBetween #GameNight #NMJL
Watching someone else's real recovery made this de Watching someone else's real recovery made this decision feel a lot less scary! Thanks to @cristina.noh13 transparency!!! You go girl!!! Read more about my research on #deepplanefacelift on TheMidMama.substack.com #midlifewomen #theinbetween #TheMidMama #over40beauty #over50beauty
I said I'd keep you posted on this deep plane face I said I'd keep you posted on this deep plane facelift rabbit hole I'm in — and then I found someone actually living it in real time. @cristina.noh13 has been documenting her recovery day by day. Not the polished before/after, but the real middle! The unglamorous part that nobody's surgeon-marketing page shows you. And here's the part that really got me: her surgeon is @drmikeroskies in Toronto, one of the exact surgeons I've been following this whole time. New post is up on themidmama.substack.com (link in bio, too). I include real stats on what deep plane face/neck lift and upper bleph recovery actually looks like week by week and why watching someone else's honest middle made this whole decision feel a lot less like a leap of faith. Real life in the in-between. #theMidMama #DeepPlaneFacelift #FaceLifeRecovery #MidlifeWomen #Midlife
I fact🧐checked cortisol face so you don't have to. I fact🧐checked cortisol face so you don't have to. Full article on themidmama.substack.com - link in bio too. #cortisolface #midlifewomen #perimenopause #motherhood #themidmama
Have you looked in the mirror lately and wondered Have you looked in the mirror lately and wondered if your face looks… different? Yeah. Me too. Turns out we’re not alone — “cortisol face” has racked up hundreds of millions of views on TikTok, and half of us have diagnosed ourselves with it by now. So, I did some digging. What’s real, what’s overstated, and what the $6 cortisol cocktail is actually doing for you (spoiler: probably not what you think). New article is up — link in bio. 🔗 themidmama.substack.com Have you tried the cocktail? 👇 #TheMidMama #RealLifeInTheInBetween #CortisolFace #MidlifeWellness #MidlifeWomen #WellnessTrends #MidlifeConfessions
What’s your midlife confession today? Drop it belo What’s your midlife confession today? Drop it below 👇 #motherhood #midlifeconfessions #reallifeintheinbetween #realtalk #midlifereinvention
POV: you said you’d never be a mahjong person and POV: you said you’d never be a mahjong person and now you think about tile combos while folding laundry 🀄😅 New post breaks down why this is having a full cultural moment (the numbers are wild), what the research says it’s doing for your brain, the celebrities who are just as obsessed, and my 5 tips for surviving the Charleston. Link in bio. Are you in the mahjong pipeline yet? Tell me below — just in case I need a fourth. 👇 #mahjong #themidmama #mahjongtok #midlifewomen #realtalk #girlsnight #midlifereinvention
Officially obsessed. No longer taking questions. 🀄 Officially obsessed. No longer taking questions. 🀄✨ I wrote about why mahjong has completely taken over my brain (and apparently a lot of yours, too) — the numbers on this trend are wild, the research on what it does for your mind is legit, and yes, I included my hard-won tips for the Charleston because that part almost broke me. New post on The Mid Mama substack LINK in the bio. Real life in the in-between includes, apparently, being emotionally invested in tile combinations. Are you playing? Tell me below — I'm building a Mahj Squad. 👇 #TheMidMama #Mahjong #MahjongObsessed #MidlifeWomen #RealLifeInTheInBetween #NMJL #GameNight #MidlifeReinvention
Yes, I have a thing for celebrity memoirs. I do re Yes, I have a thing for celebrity memoirs. I do read other books. But here is what I thought of some of the memoirs I have read over the past few years. Real life in the in-between means reading about everyone else’s in-between too. Check out my article linked in bio. Which one did you enjoy? Drop it below 👇 #TheMidMama #CelebrityMemoirs #MidlifeReading #RealLifeInTheInBetween #BookStack #MemoirsWorthReading
Demi Moore’s Inside Out wrecked me — in the best w Demi Moore’s Inside Out wrecked me — in the best way. Tina Fey’s Bossypants is secretly the best leadership book I’ve read this year. Cher’s The First Time is plain, unbothered, iconic. Amy Poehler’s Yes Please made me miss loud ambition. Mindy Kaling’s Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? is the palate cleanser. Jessica Simpson’s Open Book is rawer than I expected. And Kelly Ripa’s Live Wire? Long, rambly — but that chapter on her youngest and becoming an empty nester got me right in the chest. Currently deep in Matthew Perry’s Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing. Heavier going. A little more “here’s who to blame” than I’d like. Still can’t put it down. Real life in the in-between means reading about everyone else’s in-between too. Check out my article linked in bio. Which one am I missing? Drop it below 👇 #TheMidMama #CelebrityMemoirs #MidlifeReading #RealLifeInTheInBetween #BookStack #MemoirsWorthReading
Nobody tells you about the in-between. ❤️ Not youn Nobody tells you about the in-between. ❤️ Not young enough for the trends. Not "old" enough to have it all figured out. Raising kids while grieving who you were before them. Building something new and still not sure it counts. I've stopped waiting to get out of it. Say it louder for the back of midlife: you don't have to have arrived to belong here. #TruthTuesday #MidlifeConfessions #TheMidMama #MidlifeWomen #InBetween #Midlife
14 pieces. Endless outfits. Zero decision fatigue. 14 pieces. Endless outfits. Zero decision fatigue. 👗☀️ I built my Midlife-Compatible Capsule Wardrobe for summer — the pieces that take me from school pickup to date night without a second outfit change. Inside: my go-to linen tops, one perfect white dress, the Bermuda shorts doing quiet work all season, and the sneaker/sandal combo that covers every occasion. Because at this stage of life, the goal isn't a bigger closet — it's a smarter one. Full breakdown link in bio 🔗 To shop the items simply comment SUMMER . . . #TruthTuesday #MidlifeConfessions #CapsuleWardrobe #SummerStyle #MidlifeStyle #TheMidMama #MidlifeWomen #StyleAfter40 #LessIsMore @paige @mother @splendidla @rails @sarahflint_nyc @colehaan @hudsonjeans @madewell @perfectwhitetee
Five minutes. Six products. A face that still look Five minutes. Six products. A face that still looks like mine, just a little brighter and more finished. That’s the whole philosophy behind this routine — and honestly, behind a lot of how I’m approaching beauty in this stage of life. Less about hiding, more about a little enhancement and a lot of ease. @cerave @tartecosmetics @lauramercier @narsissist @revlon @morphebrushes Comment LINK and I send you links to all this.
Absolutely no filter! I am 53 — be kind. And these Absolutely no filter! I am 53 — be kind. And these are the products I use to get this simple summer-ready, minimal make-up look. Links in my linktree in bio. @cerave Hydrating Mineral Sunscreen Medium Sheer Tint — this provides some coverage and definitely provides protection with a glow. @narsissist Nars Orgasm — its a cult classic for a reason. It gives a great sun-kissed color to my cheeks. @tartecosmetics Platinum Lights Camera Lashes - I do not have lash extensions but this makes my lashes look full and long. @lauramercier Secret Brightening Under Eye Setting Powder in Soft Pink — this works: it brightens and sets. @revlon Super Lustrous The Gloss in Blissed Out — lovely summery, peachy color that is not sticky and not too shiny - just right. @morphebrushes Morphe eyeshadow to get a soft eye-lined look. Morphe offers solid basic colors for everyday. Love all of these products and can get this look in about 5 mins. #midlife #over40beauty #beautyproducts #Affordablebeauty #over50beauty
I paid for a color analysis (@the_color_coordinato I paid for a color analysis (@the_color_coordinator ) after ChatGPT already gave me one for free. Worth it? 100%. AI: Warm Autumn Pro: Dark Autumn Same family, different depth — and depth changes everything about which shades actually work for you. Full story on the blog (link in bio) 🔗 #TruthTuesday #MidlifeConfessions #ColorAnalysis #DarkAutumn #TheMidMama #MidlifeWomen #StyleAfter40
AI said Warm Autumn. A professional (@the_color_co AI said Warm Autumn. A professional (@the_color_coordinator) said Dark Autumn. Here's why that gap actually matters 👇 I ran my color analysis two ways this year: 🤖 ChatGPT (free, 5 minutes, a couple selfies) 👩‍🎨 A professional colorist (in person, real fabric, real light) ChatGPT landed me in Warm Autumn. The pro landed me in Dark Autumn. Same season — but "warm" leans into golden brightness first, and "dark" leans into richness first. That one word changes which shades actually make you glow vs. which ones just... don't wash you out. My real results, from the pro: 🎨 Undertone: Warm 🎨 Depth: Dark 🎨 Saturation: Soft 🎨 Contrast: High/medium 🎨 Neutrals: soft white, cream, camel, mocha, chocolate brown, espresso, navy, charcoal, black ✨ Metals: gold, copper, rose gold AI got me in the right neighborhood. The professional got me my actual address. Moral of the story, Mid Mamas: AI is a great free starting point. But if you're about to spend real money on a wardrobe or makeup bag built around the answer — pay for the precision. Full breakdown on the blog (link in bio) 🔗 . . . #TruthTuesday #MidlifeConfessions #ColorAnalysis #DeepAutumn #WarmAutumn #SeasonalColorAnalysis #ColorAnalysisAI #TheMidMama #MidlifeWomen #StyleAfter40
Tried the viral Amylu meatball white lasagna recip Tried the viral Amylu meatball white lasagna recipe that @itsmesaramartinez shared. Verdict? Delicious...and salty enough to make you side-eye your water bottle. What I'd change next time via link in my bio.
Midlife Confessions: potty training at 53 edition. Midlife Confessions: potty training at 53 edition. Somebody tell me I'm not alone. #TheMidMama #MidlifeConfessions #RealLifeintheInBetween #olderMomLife #GenXMom
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